I've been with my boyfriend for a whole two and half years! That's
like, a century to a young girl livin' in the big city now-a-days! I
mean we ALWAYS have our options. Sometimes we look for them, and other
times, they just sort of "drop in." Like my sexy little option, we will
call him...Bob. We kicked it off right away as friends, but recently
there are definitely some sparks in the air between us! I am afraid I
might be falling for Bob just because he is something fresh, new,
spontaneous, exciting, sexy, personable, tall, dark, handsome,
eloquent, okay you get my drift! I mean nothing was wrong with my
boyfriend before Bob came along. Yet, if I was really happy, would this all be possible? I am way too new to this love triangle crap! How can I find my way out?!
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I know the feeling, and the thinking that goes with it. I think, at least for me, that it's the idea of someone new and somewhat less known than a boyfriend of two and a half years. It kind of makes me feel guilty...
I agree--I think it's just the idea of someone new and different that makes them seem exciting. Be careful--every new guy has a new set of problems. All you see right now is the stuff that attracts you to him. You don't sound unhappy with your boyfriend to me--you simply sound comfortable. Try infusing some excitement into your existing relationship--it may help you fight temptation.